Dating services

You have joined a couple of dating services and written a really good profile. Uploaded a nice picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. How do you start separating those who you like and those who you don’t like at all?  You need to find out something about who this strange man really is and not just who he wants you to believe he is. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid and how to impress this man if you decide you want to continue.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask him, “What are the biggest mistakes girls make when dating online?” Listen carefully to his answers. He’s going to tell you a lot about himself and he’s views on girls in general.

Next you should ask him, What do you really think about online dating?  Now he will tell you if he has had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same mistakes.

Important question What caused the break up in your last relationship?  If he puts all the blame on the girl, you should probably move on to the next prospect.  If he takes all the blame himself, you should probably do the same.  If he says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you have heard the right answer.  Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the man for the first time.